Both parties need to try and make some changes so that the couple is going to have a fantastic long-lasting and strong marriage. However modern Indian wives shown some of the ancient Indian rituals and remedies (totkas) that might help married women to improve understanding between spouses. These ceremonies are related to the Vedic texts of Ayurveda and Astrology and involve the use of herbs, flowers, foods and motions to soften the heart and attract love.
Here are 10 powerful and time-tested totkas or remedies for attracting your husband's love and affection:
1. Praise Lord Shiva and Parvati
Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati are regarded as the divine couple who are perfectly satisfying to one another, as man and wife. Their compatibility could be easily explained due to the fact that trinity of Shiva is diametrically opposite of that of Parvati though Shiva is calm and indifferent while Parvati embodies tenderness and care.
On every Friday night a married woman should pray to an effigy or a statuette of the divine pair. Lite a oil lamp, put some haldi-kumkum on the idol, put some red flowers and hibiscus flowers and pray from your heart. Chant the following mantra 11 times with eyes closed:
Namaste To The Lord RUDRA Namaste To PARVATI Shathru To The Vaishnavi Tanmaya, Mangalyae Mangalyae Shive,Narayanye Shiva Sadhike Sharanye Durge Devi Narayani Namostute
Call on Lord Shiva and Parvati to bless your marriage and overcome problem and quarrel. Sweet should be offered to the couple before the completion the puja. This totke makes the love between husbands and wives increase.
2. The Art of Obtaining Gods’ Boons – Hindu Style
Throughout Hinduism, the Goddesses are worshipped in numerous forms which the Goddesses are persons of the feminine power and different dominion of a supreme entity. While on Fridays you should worship Goddess of wealth – Lakshmi, goddess of learning – Saraswati, goddess of love and fertility – Parvati, and goddess of power and defense – Durga.
Dark colored diyas in front of their gods or goddesses, place before each one her favorite flower, colored dress/saree, and sweets and recite mantras to seek blessings. This enhanced the feminine energy and atmosphere will attract your husband towards you. Harmony and understanding are the positive impacts brought about by positive energy yeilds.
3. For the long life of husband Sindoor should be applied to Your Maang
The vermilion powder or Sindoor is that part or color of a married Hindu woman. Tie a small pinch of pure Sindoor powder in the middle of the hair partition daily. The Maang or middle hair part is related with the ajna (third eye) chakra, which has got the control on the intuition and vision. This vital pressure point has great potentiality.
Put sindoor on with love while remembering your husband and for his long healthy life. This to an extent helps cement relationship between you. Sindoor powder when scientifically analyzed contain two chemicals mercury and lime which work on the pituitary and pineal glands in the brain enhancing energy enhancement and intuition power.
4. Few Tips of Vastu to Increase the Conceptual Knowledge
A brief understanding about Vastu Shastra for home as it provide guidelines in designing, constructing and planning houses for good health and prosperity. Chanting the above mentioned shlokas or mantras should be done religiously to overcome all the residential evils and make your husband more affectionate towards you by practicing the following some valuable Vastu remedies.
In the home, there should be no interferes in the southwest region of the home, these should not be cluttered so as to improve your relationship luck. SW bagua area is for marriage and love relations. Display couples photos here.
To encourage togetherness, put a statue, a picture of two love birds to face each other in the southwestern room or corner.
Daily change of flowers , and adequacy of sources of fresh air and natural light should be ensured.
Peach, pink and coral should be used in room decoration; they create atmosphere that encourages emotional sharing.
Both of you will have to make necessary changes according to Vastu so that you will begin talking to each other.
5. Worship Tulsi and Peepal Tree
Tulsi plant and Peepal tree are considered very holy in Hindu religion. For 300 days from today, each and everyday morning after bath, make it a duty to go to your Tulsi plant, water it and go round the tree praying hard for your husband and your marriage. Light an oil diya near it. In scientific sense, tulsi controls stress hormones which reduces anxiety or conflicts and peepal purifier the environment.
Chant the protective mantra for husband’s health, wealth and longlife:
“May there be happiness to all, may there be peace to all, may none suffer any sorrow, Om, peace, peace, peace.”
To honor these is to recall the energies of a woman, with nature and thus, balance and earth energy in the home.
6. Chant Powerful Beej Mantras
The Beej Mantras the chants of Sanskrit seed sounds, produce powerful formations which have a tendency of vibrating strongly. Every syllable vibrates in harmony with certain chakras of a human body altering their speed for increased vitality. Chanting them 7 times each, 3 times daily can bless married life:
Kleem (क्लीं) – Derived from love and attraction.
Shreem(S) – Supportive Goddess for Health, Wealth, and Prosperity
Hreem (ह्रỆM)- Clears Negative Energy and invoke Protection
7. Tilak doing Haldi Chandan For Husband
Prepare a natural auspicious mark or tilak with turmeric sandalwood paste on the fore head of husband before he goes out for work. Please use it sparingly and with love asking for protection and happiness for him that day. Sandalwood has the capacity to reduce the nervous system and turmeric has the capacity to cleanse the surrounding energies. Knowing this mark, everybody shows respect to him. This daily practice of blessing also brings knowledge.
8. Gift Personalized Energized Yantra that will help you to boost your confidence, prove yourself and get a promotion, among other benefits.
The presented Vedic Yantra design is the oldest it is based on geometric shapes reflecting planetary forces. We also found that Shri Yantras made by personalizing each one with the husband’s name and locked in makes a powerful energized gift. Religiously, it aligns his soul energy with the energy of the yantra to fetch protection, good health, & prosperity.
Put this gift from wife in the home temple or put it in the office desk. This to a large extent enhances marriage happiness.
9. Feng Shui Remedies for Holding On to a Partner
The ancient Chinese methodology known as Feng Shui (Wind-Water) helps to create environment organization to establish concordance between humanity and earth environment. Subscribe to this Feng Shui love remedy using the elemental energy –
In the southwest bedroom place and at opposite corners a pair of mandarin ducks that represent fidelity and mating. Even better, it’s shown to model affection by modelling pairs of elephants touching each other with their trunks. Put the enhancers at the side of the wedded couples’ side of the mattress.
Matrimony of well-matched energies benefits married life.
10. Increase communication with Ayurvedic massage
Ayurvedic acupuncture finds vital energy point in hairs, hands and feet that is linked to body organs such as the heart. Rub husband’s feet or head with some soothing oil when going to bed. Use almond, coconut or sesame oil and rub with the palm of one hand while inhaling and then exhaling. This rebalances the nervous system, decreases nervousness and tinnitus and improves speech.
If these Vedic science rituals or totkas are attempted with fair amount of regular faith and optimism, it may enhance likeness between husband and wife and eventually help to minimize their differences and disputes. Thus, every marriage is fully capable of blossoming into the type of sacred lifelong union in light of compromises and reciprocation.